Clients often present with a multitude of
sins! Although they might have come for a treatment for a bad shoulder, they
often bring with them a hefty 'back catalogue' of aches, pains and
conditions. In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) practitioners are
expected to treat both the 'branch' and the 'root' of the condition. What then
are the root causes of disease and how do we treat the source and not just the
manifestation?
An example of just how strong this
connection is can be found in the book 'Pain'; in it the author describes how
in war, survivors of mutilating injuries have recorded lower pain levels than
those with less severe wounds. The author reasons that because those with less
severe injuries would be returning to the front, a horrific and terrific
prospect, their brains flooded with chemicals that increased their pain .
Those more severely injured soldiers that were to return home to safety
produced bio-chemicals that reduced their pain. Anecdotally this is also
evidenced by clients who report that their symptoms "disappear" when
on holiday in relaxed surroundings away from their regular responsibilities.
Together this evidence suggests that our attitude
towards our environment is what instructs the body to produce chemicals that
relax or stimulate us and this is supported by findings from the discipline of psychoneuroimmunology. The
connection between our bodies and our experiences is further indicated by our
language. When we use terms such as "I couldn't shoulder the
responsibility" or "it's back-breaking work". We are indicating,
consciously or subconsciously where we
are experiencing, and potentially storing, our emotions towards our
environments.
This relationship between emotion and
physicality is present at birth and both positive and negative habits are
usually formed in 'kidulthood' and concretised as an adult. In secondary
school, during the awkwardness of adolescence, we manipulate our bodies to gain acceptance and/or dominance.
For example, depending on a young person's self-esteem and the culture of their
peer group, taller teens may stoop to subconsciously 'fit in better'. The media emphasis on
'perfect bodies' also has teens 'working out' in ways that will compromise
their natural growth during their teen years.
The use of postural muscles are used
throughout our lives to display dominance and submission in group situations
(think office politics). These are often gender specific such as rotation and
tilt in the hips to accentuate femininity and over extension in the chest to
accentuate masculinity. As well as overt changes we can also store emotions
that are literally inappropriate in a work place such as anger or disgust. In
clients who are unable to challenge managers or colleagues overtly due to
sensibilities in their work environments there can be pronounced tightness in
the gluteal muscles (these are the muscles that give our bottoms it's curved
shape). I speculate that storing tension in the back of the body is a safer,
less visible place than the front of the body which are observable face to
face, such as gritting one's teeth or tightening pectoral (chest) muscles .
This is not quite as cut and dried as the example implies, but you get the
gist.
Disease is clearly experienced physically
- through our bodies, our breathing, our skin, our nervous systems and so on.
However the relationship between body and mind is such a strong one that the
condition of our mind can impact massively on the way we experience disease. Another word for disease,
or dis-ease, is discomfort. Being totally (physically and emotionally)
comfortable in our bodies, past the age of 7 or so is far rarer than one would
think. Or, as the Czech would have it "If you wake up in the morning and
feel no pain, it is to be feared that you died in the night". Cheery. So
how do we get (and stay) comfortable in our own bodies?
Our bodies are hardwired to react to
threats. Evolutionally, this has been a good thing! However a curse (and
blessing) of the human condition is our imagination; our ability to think
things through before and after they happen. Unfortunately our bodies have a
hard time distinguishing between what is actually happening and what we imagine
to be happening. Think about a conflict and your heart will speed up, breathing
will become more shallow and adrenaline will start pumping through the body.
Conversely, thinking happy thoughts will generate endorphins that relax the
body. Therefore reuniting our mind with our
bodies is the first step to being at peace physically as well as
mentally.
Firstly however I would suggest patience
and acceptance of whatever physical and emotional states we are in right now! Our bodies have taken on the shape
they have to protect us as best they know how. There's no point being angry
with ourselves, it only furthers our disassociation from our bodies. Put on a
bit of weight? Good. That's the body giving you a layer of insulation from the
British weather (or the chill your boss sends up your spine). Getting that
rounded shoulder look? Fair enough given the hours you spend at the computer
doing your best to meet the rent. But take note, if you do want to change
physical and mental habits it is necessary to commit to frequent and regular
actions. Small steps will get you there but only if you take enough of them. To
create lasting change in the body it is necessary to do it daily - be it exercise, meditation,
affirmations or whatever it is you are doing to create change. It can be for as
little as 5 or 10 minutes but it is important to create genuine, undisturbed
special time and space for you to be
with you - body and mind.
So, how should you change? First of all
there's no should! It totally depends on what type of person you are. For
example many people find Tai Chi too slow. Now, even if you are the kind of
person who would benefit from slowing down a bit, if you kill yourself out of
boredom before you've calmed down then we've not really made progress. In my
opinion most forms of exercise unite body and mind through the breath.
'Hard form' or aerobic exercises will benefit
cardiovascular and respiratory systems and strengthen wei qi which is the body's first defence against air-born
pathogens (i.e. it keeps you more resistant to disease). However it can be
harder on the joints and so, after a certain age - which depends on your
previous level of physical fitness - I believe it is worth concentrating more
on soft form exercises.
Meanwhile stretches develop physical
flexibility which can enable us to 'roll with the punches' on a
psychic/emotional level. 'Soft form' stretches such as tai chi or chi gong are
good for the cardiovascular and respiratory system as well as the connective
tissue, or fascia, of the body. Fascia is connected to the autonomic and
parasympathetic nervous systems which govern automatic processes such as
breathing and digestion as well as the bodies ability to heal.
Ideally, you'll do both (and meditate!)
Fortunately I don't have to describe running here and other of my posts will
deal with ideas and techniques around meditation so for now I will leave you
with a classic Qi Gung posture that is rumoured to be the only one you'll ever
need!
Zhan Zhuang (Jam Joong)
Place your legs shoulder width
apart with feet facing forwards. The space between your second and third toes
should face straight ahead this can make you look a little pigeon toed but
that's the Chinese straight for you
Bend the knees slightly. When
you look down you should still be able to see your toes (stomach permitting)
Feel the crown of you head
suspended as though from a string. Tuck the chin in slightly and feel the back
of the neck open.
Sit down. As though sitting on
a bar stool with your pelvis tucked under slightly.
Relax. Breathe.
Feel your spine straight and
your head, perineum (the bit between genitals and anus) and the point midway
between your feet all in a straight line.
Let your hands float up to
mouth height, palms face towards the body and slightly upwards (as though there
is a coil in your arms). Hands are lower than shoulders. Elbows are lower than
hands.
Relax the shoulders and
BREATHE!
Try to practice this once a
day building from two-three minutes up to ten-twenty minutes and although you
(probably) won’t live forever you will almost certainly experience an increase
in physical and emotional resilience.
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